I don't know if it is because I have two gay family members that I am overly sensitive to such words as faggot, fag, queer, dyke or phrases such as that's gay to describe something or a situation that is no so desirable. I cringe when I hear these said out loud and in public.
Actually now that I think about it, it's not just about words such as those. I also feel the same way about the word retarded and the word n*gger. I don't know how these words can slide off of people's tongues so easily. I used to work with a woman who had a son who was developmentally delayed and every time someone else would use the word retarded in her presence I would cringe. It wasn't just in her presence that made me cringe, it was at any point, but it was especially more cringe-worthy knowing about her son's condition.
I cannot even bring myself to say these words when I am repeating or quoting someone. Words can be hurtful and one never knows who is in their presence before the word comes out of their mouth. I know there are some people who are gay, or who do have special needs, and these words don't bother them, but they do bother me. I have had people say the word faggot in my previous work environment and every time it was said, the people would apologize to me. I would rather you not say the word at all, then to apologize to me. Instead of apologies, speak kinder. You never know who you will offend with these words!
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